Is this Possible in My Life?

That was my first question when I started to seriously consider Jesus’ first and greatest command to us – Love the Lord your God will all of your heart and all of your soul and all of your mind.  The 2nd commandment is to love others as we love ourselves.

The first commandment sounded so overwhelming that I decided to start there and worry about the 2nd one later.  I’m glad I seriously tackled the first one on its own because I found that, with every baby step I took towards loving God with everything I have, a truly supernatural thing started to happen. Nov 11 2103

God helped me with all of the rest.

I wanted to be a better wife and God helped me do that when I put him first.

I wanted to be a better mother – God also helped me do that.

I wanted to be a better employee at work and God helped me with that as well.

I wanted to be a better friend and neighbor – God helped me with that and gradually my obedience to command #2 was also improving without having to work at it. 

These are all areas of my life where I was working very hard to improve yet  feeling frustrated because of so little progress.

All of them improved and got easier with every step of faith I took closer to God.

That’s why God wants us to put him first.  He wants to help us with all of the rest.  And then he wants to take it to the next level by blessing us with the things we didn’t even have on the list!

In my experience, we only have to open our lives up to the power of the Holy Spirit and he helps us grow our obedience with both commands.

It’s not always easy, but it’s worth it!

Thank you, dear Father!

It Works!

Why am I surprised?

November 3 2013Jesus gives us timeless instructions on how to deal with personal conflict in Matthew 18 –

Go to this person and talk with them privately – just the 2 of you. 

Two thousand years later, this first step still resolves a majority of the conflicts I experience.

Jesus actually says to ‘point out their faults’ and, in my life, I translate that to mean that I need to explain my perspective of the conflict using ‘I’ statements, avoiding ‘You’ statements and NEVER saying anything like ‘We all think’ or ‘Mary and Tom agree with me’. 

NEVER include anything about what other people have said about this situation.  Repeating what other people think about a conflict is like throwing a gallon of gas onto the fire.  It always creates defensiveness and starts an argument. 

So Jesus tells us to go privately to the person we are having a conflict with and explain our perspective.

If that doesn’t work, the next step is to get 2 or 3 people to go with us to talk with the person.  I have found it best if these people are either respected, neutral people or mature people who could be considered on ‘their side’.  Bringing a bunch of my friends along is not going to accomplish anything.  Going into these sessions with an open mind is as important as not needing to ‘win’ anything.  It’s actually better if the conflict is resolved with no one ‘winning’.  It puts the relationship back on even ground.

The 3rd step Jesus mentions is specifically in regard to church membership if this is a conflict within the church body. 

I have been in the business of managing processes and leading people for over 30 years and these are the best conflict resolution steps that I’ve ever found.

It shouldn’t surprise me that they came from Jesus over 2000 years ago.

Thank you, dear Jesus!

God Trumps Tradition

Traditions.  We can have a lot of them – especially in church.

They can bring comfort and familiarity.  They can provide structure and bring back great memories.

Nov 1 2013They can also bring rigidity that refuses to change and grow.  They can create an attitude of mindless observation and boredom because we’ve done this a million times before.

Jesus confronts the teachers of the Law in Mark 7 with the fact that they had started making their own rules and traditions more important than God’s command.

Do we ever do that?

One of the most important messages to us in the New Testament is that Jesus changed EVERYTHING!

He turned the religious traditions of his day inside out and upside down.

Why?

Because doing God’s will was more important to him than observing the religious traditions of his time.

Jesus started a revolution over 2000 years ago by being radically sold out to God.  In his life, obedience to God  was more important than following traditions and the current acceptable cultural norms.

THIS should be our tradition.

Thank you, dear Jesus, for coming to earth to save us and to show us how to live.

A Call to Action

Jesus is travelling through towns and villages in Matthew 9 teaching in the synagogues and healing the sick.   He has compassion on the people because they are so harassed and helpless.

He tells his disciples that the harvest is plentiful but the workers are few.

And he tells his disciples what he wants them to do about this issue.October 31 2013

What would you expect him to say?  He has just pointed out a huge opportunity to bring needy people into the Kingdom of God.

The next step is to ?

I would have expected Jesus to say Go!  Go do something about this. But that’s not what he said. 

He told his disciples to pray. 

Pray to the Lord of Harvest to send out workers.

Pray!  Not Go.

Pray.

That’s his direction to us today – about the harvest, about everything.  Pray.  Ask our Father God to prepare things in advance for us. 

Then we go.

In your name, Dear Father.

 

Please Leave

It can be scary when God starts doing something new.

It’s strange.  It’s different.October 30 2013

It takes us out of our comfort zone.

We have a choice – we can embrace it and move deeper into God’s will for us.

Or we can be afraid of this new thing and miss the opportunity to know God better.

In Matthew 8, Jesus releases a man from possession by a legion (a lot) of demons.  People from all over the countryside come to see what happened.  When they see this man who was a lunatic for so many years dressed and acting normal, they were afraid.

So they asked Jesus to leave.

They missed it!  They were in the presence of the King of the Universe and they asked him to go away.

This was too different.

It was too new.

It made them uncomfortable.

So Jesus left.

Of course he did.  He wants to be wanted.  When we choose him, he will come into our hearts and minds to help free us from our own demons.  And, if we give him more and more room in our lives every day, his influence on our life grows and it all starts making sense.  The journey begins to have an eternal purpose that makes it all worth it.

If we’re too afraid, we’ll miss the ‘more’ that God has for us.

Dear Father, please chase away our fears.

When…..

is God going to tell me what to do? 

How often do we hear this question coming out of the mouths of Christ-followers?

The fact is – God has already told us what to do.   In his word.  And its specific.

The Sermon on the Mount in Matthew is full of directions for everything.  Jesus tells us how to handle eating, what we wear, giving, praying, our treasures, our worries, our relationships, lies, grace, our enemies and our faith.

What else do we need to know?

At the end of the sermon, Jesus says, ” Why do you call me ‘Lord, Lord’ but do not do as I say?”

Jesus is asking us that same question today.  He has told us what he wants us to know and do – are we doing it?  He’s not our Lord is we’re aren’t growing in our obedience to him.  We’ll never be 100% obedient this side of heaven BUT – do we have a daily desire to become more Christ-like?  Do we have daily disciplines in our lives that open up our minds and hearts to God’s transforming power? 

If our answer is yes, then we can call Jesus ‘Lord’.

You are the Light….

of the world, ” Jesus tells us in Matthew 5.

Our light should give light to everyone in our house.  It should shine out to the point that those who see it are impressed with our God.

So how bright is our light shining today?October 26 2013

It’s good to take an objective look at our faith journey at least once a year to make sure we’re still growing.  God has called us to shine His light right where we live so that others may be drawn to him.  And our goal should be to shine brighter and brighter every year until God brings us home to heaven.

To grow, we need to find more time and more ways to place our mind, body and spirit into God’s presence so he can transform us.  Worship, serving, prayer and Bible study with others and by ourselves are great ways for us to continue to grow into the people God created us to be.

Too often I see older Christians who have become discontent and crabby.  They don’t like what the pastor says or does.  They are extremely quick to point out anything and everything that’s wrong with their church and with their family.

I think God calls us to grow more Christ-like as we grow older, not more crabby.   As we walk this path of faith, we are supposed to be learning more patience and more compassion and more contentment and more wisdom so we can become an increasing blessing to the people around us and our church family.

That’s my goal – to become more Christ-like, not more crabby.

What’s yours?

Evidence

‘This treasure you have accumulated will stand as evidence against you on the day of judgement”.

In his fifth chapter, James is talking about ‘rich people’  weeping and groaning because of the terrible troubles that are ahead of them as a result of their wealth.

He says that their accumulated treasure will be evidence against them because of the workers who were paid unfairly.

And I think James is telling us this same thing today.  Americans are the richest people on our planet and James is telling us that this wealth is evidence against us when God sees all of the people on earth who are hungry and in need.

James goes on to tell the rich people that they have spend their years on earth in luxury, satisfying their desires.  James tells them this is like fattening themselves up for the slaughter that will come because of their treatment of innocent people.

Hungry people.

Homeless people.

Dear Father, Please have mercy on us.  Help us grow in sharing what you have given to us.

Don’t Fool Yourself….

reading the Bible and not obeying what you read will not bring God’s blessings.

That’s what James tells us at the end of his first chapter.

If we read God’s word and obey it, it will set us free and we will receive God’s blessings.

Anything less is foolishness.

He writes this sort of strange analogy about looking at your face in the mirror and then walking away only to forget what you look like.

The other day this made more sense to me.  I was finishing up getting ready for work when I looked in the mirror and saw that I didn’t have any earrings on yet.  I intended to go pick some out but then I got distracted by something else as I walked away.

When I got to work, I happened to glance at the mirror and was kind of shocked to see that I didn’t have any earrings on.  I had intended to put some on but it never happened so now I went all day without earrings.

This experience helped me relate to the mirror analogy.   When I read God’s truth in the Bible, I need to obey it and act upon it.  I can’t let other things distract me.  The best intentions in the world are worthless without action and follow-through.

If I want God’s blessings in my life, obedience comes first. 

Dear Father, please help me grow in obedience.

Most Prized Possession

What is your most prized possession?

For me, it would be my family, of course.   Nothing else other than my relationship with God is precious to me. 

If we were talking material items, then it would probably be my camera.  I wanted a camera like it for 25 years and finally got one.  I really like it but, if I lost it or it broke, I’d be fine.  It’s not THAT important to me.  Some of my pictures are pretty precious to me but it’s really the memories that are precious – the pictures are just reminders.

I can’t really think of anything else I own that would be a prized possession. Some Christians might say their Bible is one of theirs but I have several that I used for various reasons.  My current favorite one is a large print version 🙂

I love the scripture in James 1  where God tells us that, out of all his creation, we are his prized possessions.

Don’t you love being called a prized possession by God?  I do.

I don’t always act like his prized possession and I don’t always feel like his prized possession but his word is here to remind me that I am.  I really am.  And so are you!

So let’s walk around today with that thought slowly revolving around in our brains.  Let’s dwell on the love that God shows us as his prized possessions.  His grace…his patience…..his strength.  Let this truth permeate the air that we breathe and let this reality change our thinking today.  And tomorrow.  And each day.

Thank  you, dear Father.  For all that you are.  From one of your prized possessions.